How Do We Make Decisions?
🌍 Decision Making is Cultural
The way we make decisions — big and small — is shaped by our cultural background. Some cultures emphasise individual choice; others prioritise collective agreement. Some value speed; others value thorough discussion. Understanding these differences helps us work better with people from diverse backgrounds.
In Aotearoa New Zealand, we draw on multiple cultural traditions. This handout explores how different cultures approach decision making, with a focus on Te Ao Māori, Pacific, Asian, and Western traditions.
Pacific Traditions: Respect and Hierarchy
🌺 Pacific Decision Making
Pacific cultures (Samoan, Tongan, Cook Islands, Fijian, and others) share values of respect, relationship, and collective wellbeing, though each culture has distinct practices.
Talanoa — The Conversation
Talanoa is a Pacific approach to dialogue that emphasises:
- Face-to-face conversation
- Building trust and relationship first
- Sharing stories and perspectives openly
- Reaching understanding through dialogue, not debate
Respect for Elders and Chiefs
Many Pacific cultures have clear hierarchies where:
- Elders (matua/tūpuna) are consulted on important matters
- Chiefs or titled people may have formal decision-making authority
- Younger people show respect by listening before speaking
- Family obligations may shape individual choices
Fono — The Formal Meeting
A fono (Samoan) or similar gathering brings the community together for important decisions. Protocol and ceremony frame the discussion, and outcomes serve the collective good.
🎭 Scenario Practice
Scenario 1: The School Trip
Your class is planning a school trip. The teacher asks for a show of hands to decide between two options. Hemi's whānau haven't been consulted, and he feels uncomfortable voting without their input. Mei is also hesitant — her parents expect to be involved in decisions like this.
Discussion: How might the teacher approach this decision differently to respect diverse cultural values?
Scenario 2: The Group Project
A group of students from different backgrounds needs to decide how to divide their project work. Sione suggests everyone discuss together and find consensus. David wants to vote and move on quickly. Lin prefers the group leader to decide after hearing from everyone.
Discussion: What decision-making approach could work for this diverse group?
Scenario 3: The Community Issue
A local council is deciding whether to build a new sports facility on land that is significant to local iwi. The council's usual process is to vote after public submissions.
Discussion: What cultural decision-making processes should be incorporated? How might this look in practice?